How do you tell a doctor you want a second opinion?
In this article we will describe how to get a second opinion from a doctor.
It is your right to ask for a second opinion, i.e. another doctor’s assessment, especially if you are concerned that something is not right.
There may be various reasons:
- Not convinced the doctor has the diagnosis right
- Not given a full range of treatment options
- The doctor does not instil confidence in you
- They want to discharge you when you want long-term follow up and monitoring
- You just don’t like them.
These are all valid and reasonable reasons for asking for a second opinion
Remember, there’s no need to be frightened of doctors. You would not cower from a mechanic who doesn’t fix your car, or gets angry with you. No. You’d find a new mechanic. CKDEx thinks not enough patients ask for one, and should do.
If the doctor is defensive, that’s also a concern. It might mean that they aren’t capable of self-reflection and are too set in their ways. If they get angry, it’s definitely time to find another doctor.
How to get a second opinion
You could ask to see one of your doctor’s colleagues for a second opinion. You can do this by either asking the consultant or GP to do it; or ask the consultant’s secretary, or GP receptionist, to recommend one and organise it.
But it’s worth remembering that doctors in the same area often have a similar style of care. They might have been trained by the same person, or in the same way.
For this reason, it might be worth travelling to a nearby town or city for a second, or even third opinion. Doctors in a different area might be more up-to-date, more experienced, or just do things differently.
You can and should ask your GP or consultant to facilitate a second opinion if you’re concerned, either within your general practice, hospital department, or elsewhere.
Summary
We have described how do you tell a doctor you want a second opinion. Its your right to request one. We hope it is clearer now.
